Hello,

 

I have been abused sexually and physically by my father.  I have gone through this for thirty three years.  I can help you, but you have to want the help.  I have gone through counciling for 4 yrs.  I have learned how to cope with these issues.  There are many different was to cope with it.  Some of suggestions may help you.   Do not be afraid to talk about it, because it helps more than you think.  The one main thing you really have to do is go on with your life,because if you do not it will only make things harder for you.  There is another to keep in mind, THAT THIS IS NOT YOUR FAULT.  If someone that comes to my blog, and knows what causes people to do this to anyone.  Is it a illness or is it a human gene, that causes the problem.   My name is Bettyjean.  My email is grandmabjh@msn.com .  If you need to talk just IM me.  I am a good listener. You can also e-mail me. I will try to help the best that I can.  I am 51 yrs young.  I have 6 grandchildren and one great grandchild.  I have 4 daughters and a wonderful husband.  I live out in the country and it is wonderful.  Right now my daughters are all grown up and on there own.  I call this empty nest syndrone. The grandchildren keep me going. 

 

With Love to all.   Bettyjean